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i like smurfs. i don't know if i'd flirt with one tho.

well i am a multi-tasker at nature so i am never "just here" staring at my computer

*running around from office to office downtown... in the library studying... house work... cooking/baking mMMmmmMMmmmmmm

i lead a very wholesome life (mostly) ;)

done and done.

lol

That's cool and I can tell no worries... either am i... just a healthy debate style.

it's all good :)

yes i am single. i've been in 2 back-to-back long-term relationships and even was married so definitely to each their own but my "own" has left me thinking a little differently is all.

my son means the world to me and his father and it's important that if family members are not in a romantic relationship to still remain united for the child but that can happen in many different shapes and forms. haha yeah not very many party nights for me these days (which i don't mind because for the most part its out of my system on account i started when i was 14) not with that and university on my plate lol - but i love my life and wouldn't have changed a thing if i could :)

i still have a tonne of respect for the scene and the MUSIC and try to make it out to an event once in a while ;)

love and respect should be at the base of all relationships though whether you are sleeping with the person or not. i am not disputing that.

i just think if there is still "temptation/contemplation" there in a relationship that's "traditionally conservative" then somethings outta whack.

whether it be a need to rethink why we don't trust, love and respect each other enough with other people physically while our heart and soul belongs to one man/woman alone (or can we be in love with more than one person at a time??? that's another dilemma) *AND/OR* someone will eventually slip up in these long term relationships and if they don't it's because no one found out.

but sure... concepts are great - they just don't always fly and i think when it comes to these old fashioned expectations people really should start to examine why/why not we embrace them.

and FYI: no i have never cheated... not on one person ever and i am already raising that family you speak of and it is dreamy and wonderful just not in the ways people expect if they don't have one of their own.

if you want to sleep with other people and you are in a relationship with no flexibility or "rules" because your mate doesn't trust you then you probably shouldn't be in it in the first place.

what is the definition of a committed relationship exactly? i mean come on... we're not in the 50's anymore and i know we're way past that "free love" hippie bs but i think most would agree monogamy is on the outs... or why else would the divorce rate be so high... people wait so late in life to have kids and "settle"... adultery is alive and always kickin or many just choosing a life of "singlehood" in general nowadays (not to mention all the crazy kinky sex clubs, wife/husband swaps, swingers, orgies... and oh yeah: unplanned pregnancies and STDs... proof that (for better or for worse) that we just can't control ourselves sexually as a species.

oh definitely,
i am not saying that should be an issue either. but about the watching thing: if that's the only way she's "allowed" to express herself sexually with another woman awfully controlling/manipulative and she'll most likely feel uncomfortable, cheat, and the relationship will end.

he shouldn't knock it 'till he tries it... especially for her if he expects to "watch" something intimate he is not involved in or else maybe he shouldn't be around for it

she should do it for her not him - if they love, trust and respect each other it shouldn't be an issue.

i don't believe in those labels "bi" "gay" "straight" - some people are just more open-minded than others and not ashamed of their curiosities and embrace them more than others.

well then... let the games begin...

but, if you want your boyfriend to let you have sex with other girls you have to at least offer to let him watch

wtf? why?

only if that woman can watch him with another man (ya, know if we're gonna be all "even-steven" about the whole thing ha ha ha)

that doesn't mean people are in it for the wrong reasons however, i do feel for MOST couples the "bringing new people into their sex lives" is just an excuse to stir up trouble and sneak out of the relationship (most but not all.)

offer nothing - do whatever you want - shed labels - become an anomaly

WOW! thats some SERIOUS shit...

yes yes, i second that opinion although i was expecting a little more handlebar action to be honest i'm a little disappointed :P

whats a lolcat?

lol @ a cat? *snicker snicker* seriously, i haven't a clue.

"If you were words on a page, you'd be what they call 'fine print'" bah ha - they are ALL so bad.

they "help you help yourself" - but yeah i know what you mean... i have "wtf days" too some times lol

i like to randomly use the "flirt" options as a joke on here with people ha ha - i don't know what they think about THAT tho because it just appears (apparently) as a normal BUT EXTRA cheesy/sleazy/creepy message.

but WHAT I WANNA KNOW is why i don't get them back hmmmmmmmm
i may hide behind a computer screen *sniff sniff* but i'm only human you know *cries* :P

tsk tsk

that's funny stuff. i bet who ever designed that DID make it like that on purpose :P

indeed.

i haven't been to a montreal party since 'hitched'

gonna be weird (in a fun way though)

just cause i do the club thing more often doesn't mean i have any 'raver animosity' tho lol
(well mostly, depends how sketchy they are ha ha)

i had a pair of towl material baby blue overall phat pants with big yellow buttons when i was about 14 *shudders... man i was just a kid*
i acquired from a friend of a friend. i believe they were handmade in TO (???)
ughhh they got so dirty... especially at outdoor parties [ www. ]

to be serious for a moment
there are different types of psychological practices

psychodynamic psychotherapy is wonderful.

takes techniques from a variety of sources, rather than relying on a single system of intervention
while paying quite a bit of attention to your/the patients unconscious motivation.

it's good stuff. tons of "sane" use this resource - often big businesses adopt theis practice into their own offices to aid their employees mental health by teaching them effective coping techniques (ie: stress, anxiety, etc.)

also, most often they also do not believe in medicating - instead looking at things more holistically.
yay, the end.

U will see me and will hear me you just won't know who it is or where it's coming from.

I'm fabulous like that.

Eleventeen FYI = a popular urban expression. It means someone that is acting prepubescent.

Yeah... and i like that no one know who the fuck i am.

LISTEN MISTER: I haven't "gone out" since Xmas so that isn't IN FACT selfish.

I don't give a rats ass about a situation - seems like there wasn't even one until you originally posted (correct me if I am wrong - I'm sure you will)

You are acting like an eleventeen year old girl. Quit whining. Let people come out to an event and air your dirty laundry on the streets where the garbage is at dude.

"That's just bad promoting." - Well that's just juvenile slander... soooooooooooo is THAT really any better.

Like I said: just deal with this separate from the event. Bottom line is you deal with people when you can when things are messed up in the moment... if it's old news then you move on.

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Hey now now [ www. ] Don't be a hater.

People are separate from events. Events are separate from individual people. You hate = make the public hate on you for bringing shit like this to their night too. Pure. Simple. Fact.

Not cool. Leave the shit at the door please regardless of what's gone down.
Looking for a way to spoil everyone elses time for payback on one person such a turnoff, downer/frowner, pathetic, childish... and quite frankly need to have fun tomorrow night and let my hair down so don't anyone fuck that up or I'll be pissed the fuck off. Argh.

Can't a girl just go out on the town to get a drink without people being psychotic babies over superficial shit for once? MOMMAMIAAAAAAAA.