Free Psycho Therapie !!!
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» sabinonstop replied on Wed Feb 20, 2008 @ 6:40pm |
 Coolness: 92450 | i was just thinking instead of bitching in other
threads why dont everybody feeling the february cold to much just let it all out here! its free!! lets say im like dr frasier!!! |
| I'm feeling family guy right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Adrianna replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 6:02am |
 Coolness: 42950 | ooo....ok, so here's my story, I've been with the guy of my dreams for 5 years now...back when we had gone through some long-distance time he gave me the rule that I was allowed to have girlfriends (no boys) on the side (which goes well with me being bi). However when we moved in together this rule change. I had some trouble adjusting and last summer I fell for a girl anyway (you know how they can be) even though my man was man he forgave me and we're still together. (A whole break up/make up thing) I fell that I should leave this issue to rest in order not to piss off my boyfriend but I kinda feel like asking him to re-think his policy on me having a little girl time on the side (seriously, he fulfills all the needs I want from a man, I would never cheat on him with another guy, but unfortunately I still miss some female love..that he can't offer and its not his fault). I sort of feel like I'm compromising my sexuality be only responding to half of it and I'm wondering if its fair for him to impose that on me but on the other hand is it unfair of me to ask him to re-consider (bearing in mind that I haven't been nagging him on the subject and its been 6 months since my escapade with above mentioned girl of summer).
Anyway, what should I do? |
| I'm feeling spun!!!!wee!!! right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» greatjob replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 6:14am |
 Coolness: 282475 | Stop fuckin' cheating on your boyfriend
that helps |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» databoy replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 9:31am |
 Coolness: 106135 | If its open season for you, it should be open season for him.
This whole "only with girls" rule is b.s. Desire is desire. |
| I'm feeling sugr right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» JojoBizarre replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 9:33am |
 Coolness: 294995 | Only if he can have another girl on the side! |
| I'm feeling mod right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Tamala replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 9:54am |
 Coolness: 165660 | I used to think the same way you do but one day, you grow up. When you really love someone, you only want this one person, woman or man that is how this should be. You can't be hungry for 2 deserts, one is enough or you'll just get fat feeding on a second one and not needing it.
Maybe it's time you reconsider your couple if it bothers you so much, seriously. The day you are with someone and it is more than plenty, you will not think this way believe me. He may be your ideal man, but feelings have nothing to do with it. In the meanwhile, if you cannot comprehend what I'm saying (everybody evolves on their own terms and in their own time) my suggestion is to have 3somes. You get some, he'll probably enjoy it too and it'll be fair. |
| I'm feeling insulted right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 10:20am |
 Coolness: 685610 | Or just tell him that since you don't have the outlet you need from women, that you get to buy a strap-on and plow him to compensate. |
| I'm feeling fuckin' crazy right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 10:21am |
 Coolness: 171860 | Personally, I think some people are not made for monogamy... love or not love... and other need monogamy to be happy. I don't really think there is a difference between having "on the side" sex with a girl or a boy. Sex is sex...
You have to talk about this when entering a relation with someone... and if one or the other can not make the sacrifice requiered to be in that said relationship, I'm sorry but you are not with the right person. If you fall in love with someone who has OPENLY told you she or he can see sexuality and love as 2 seperate things, you made the choice of having a relationship with this said person. And changing the rules will only make you or your partner suffer. I strongly suggest talking to your boyfriend about how you feel, but be ready to accept the fact that the relationship might not work out if you can not reach an understanding... And Jojo is right, if the rules apply to you, it has to apply to him too. |
| I'm feeling palmadaire right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PoiSoNeD_CaNdY replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 10:50am |
 Coolness: 91710 | You know the world is coming to an end when people turn to Ravewave for their psychotheruputic needs. |
| I'm feeling k'ed out! right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 10:52am |
| Coolness: 685610 | I take the "THE" out of psychotherapist! |
| I'm feeling fuckin' crazy right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Tamala replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:02am |
| Coolness: 165660 | Shindy, seriously I think I have never met anyone like you described. Most people want to have the freedom, but will not give it to their partner. Why? Because when you really love, you don't like sharing. It hurts, AND it's dangerous. Do you think condoms protect people from everything? What if both are clean, but then the girl brings home some std from having sex with another girl? Ok that is a totally different subject, but still.
Most said bisexual woman will want to be allowed to see other women, but their guy is not. And if you say "well he can have sex with other guys!! I don't mind that, it's different, but if he sleeps with another girl it's over", I'll laugh. Seeing your man sucking on a cock or kissing boys as passionately as he does with you will probably make you feel as bad as if it was another woman. Believe me, I KNOW. |
| I'm feeling insulted right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:24am |
| Coolness: 171860 | It's maybe because you haven't talked to older couples.
I know a lot of adulte with kids who go frequently to swinger's clubs. They where not invented for young adulte or teenagers, but for married couples who now need to experience other things, but still love each other. For YOU monogamy is the way to go, but it's not for everyone and you have no right to say "Because when you really love, you don't like sharing" --- That's true for you... not for all!!! It's not because 2 people choose to live their sexuality differently than you that their love for each other isn't real, or that it's wrong... I know open relationship couple who are a lot happier and who love one another a lot more than most of the monogamous one!!! but it was always made by a consensus between the 2 of them. Society made the human monogamous, and it's great for some, not for other. Update » Shindy wrote on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:30am and you know I'm not in an open relationship right now, by choice, but you have to respect everyones right to live the way they want to and the way they feel right. |
| I'm feeling palmadaire right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» JojoBizarre replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:41am |
| Coolness: 294995 | Let's all be Vulcan, lot less sex for some, but much, much more for some geeks... |
| I'm feeling mod right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Tamala replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:42am |
| Coolness: 165660 | That is not what I'm saying, I'm not judging at all! But many young couples who were in open relationships end up saying "well I wasn't really in love after all". That is waht I've experienced and seen, and I'm not talking only about me, at all. Drunken frenchkiss, that's something else, I see that all the time. But people really in love in an open relationship who actually go out an have sex with others of the oppsosite sex, I have yet to see. Married couple, that is something else completely... and I do not want to start on that since I don't really know any. I was raised by my mom alone also, so I cannot have anything to rely on for that subject.
But bisexual girls having boyfriends and craving for sex with girls, but not permitting the guy to go see elsewhere, THAT I know well! |
| I'm feeling insulted right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:44am |
| Coolness: 171860 | Ok I undertsand what you mean :)
Originally Posted By TAMALA BUT BISEXUAL GIRLS HAVING BOYFRIENDS AND CRAVING FOR SEX WITH GIRLS, BUT NOT PERMITTING THE GUY TO GO SEE ELSEWHERE, THAT I KNOW WELL!
That's just not fair :P If I was the guy, I would be unhappy in this relationship... If the girl can go see elsewhere, the guy can too!!! (boy or girl) And Jojo... Vulcan? what is special about vulcan sex??? |
| I'm feeling palmadaire right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» raisinlove replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:45am |
 Coolness: 62970 | Is it so hard for people to "do unto others as you would have done unto you"? If someone wants to cheat, why can't that person simply propose that each see other people?
Oh? you don't want him/her to see other people? Maybe he/her doesn't want YOU to see other people as well! So simple, yet so difficult to grasp for so many people. |
| I'm feeling assaulting the world right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» JojoBizarre replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:45am |
| Coolness: 294995 | they only fuck once every 7 years! something like that!
Periodically, approximately every seven years, for males and bonded females, Vulcans experience an overpowering mating drive known as pon farr. Once triggered, Vulcans must have sexual contact with someone, preferably their mate, or else face insanity and death. source wiki |
| I'm feeling mod right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» pussyvamp replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:49am |
 Coolness: 208800 | I need help.... I did too many drugs and my head exploded PLUR. Any advice? |
| I'm feeling bananas right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PoiSoNeD_CaNdY replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:52am |
| Coolness: 91710 | I'm more or less with Shindy on this one. Monogamy is neither necessary nor sufficient for two people to be in love and be together. Its not necessary because some people, not many but some, accept that love isn't something that must be divided, that its entirely possible to be fully in love with more than one person at the same time. And its not sufficient because many monogamous relationships suffer from the same problems of jealousy and insecurity that people think only apply to open relationships. Chances are that if your a jealous person and are insecure in your relationship, its not going to work whether its monogamous or not.
No offence Adriana, but I think its unfair to want to be with other people (whether girls or guys) and not allow your boyfriend to do the same. Either you accept that its possible to be in love with your boyfriend and still love someone else, in which case you should extend the same priviledge to your boyfriend, or you think that love is something that must be exclusive between two people. You can't have it both ways. |
| I'm feeling k'ed out! right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DCRn replied on Thu Feb 21, 2008 @ 11:58am |
 Coolness: 158255 | Originally Posted By TAMALA
But many young couples who were in open relationships end up saying "well I wasn't really in love after all". To be fair, young couples rarely know fuck all. You learn from mistakes and early relationships rarely ever work. Especially not when it's complicated. Some do and many pretend they do. I'm with Shindy on this one. And Poisoned_candy hit it right on the kisser. 9sorry if I didn't cap all your name). |
| I'm feeling blah right now.. | |
Free Psycho Therapie !!!
[ Cumbre de Página ] |
Post A Reply |
You must be logged in to post a reply.
[ Cumbre de Página ] |
