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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» bob_ replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 2:56pm
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Originally posted by MILKYLEELY...

It's rare to find guys that want to get involved into relationship. Usually they're scared of being serious and loose theire liberty.



girls also...
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MilkyLeely replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 2:59pm
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yep... as I say before, we're both in the same boat... same problem. BUT I find there is much more beautyfull girls than Guys.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:06pm
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maybe we should be gay together martin..


HAHAHAHA estie de malade. Ben tsé, t'es cute quand même. LOL !

Nah, forget it.

Leely, I'm seeing this pattern way more for girls than guys actually. Well, I don't look at guys so I wouldn't know. But still, does this mean 90% of people out there don't want a serious relationship ? WTF ?

Does everyone think a serious relationship is about getting married and having kids or what ?

I know I don't. Serious means " I love you too much to go sleep around with other women now. I'm yours ". That's it. No adding 50 new rules of not going out with friends anymore, no looking at other guys/girls and all that fucking crap. That's not about having a serious relationship.

So what is everyone so fucking scared about ?

I know a lot of people who take drug and massive amounts of alcohol and get sick to their fucking stomachs for 4 days straight. Yet, despite the world of pain they go through for half a week, they repeat the process every other weekend.

WTF ?

Why is a relationship any different ? You try something new, it's fun, exhilarating and soothing, then you might experience a comedown, some harder than others and you end up being hurt.

Big fucking deal. You don't see me complain to my friends who offer me a beer " no way dude, that shit got me so drunk 3 years ago, I was sick for 2 weeks straight. I'm scared to drink now " ?

Hell no. That's bullshit, you get over it and you drink up, only you go slower or don't take as much to avoid getting mad drunk and being sick.

But you still drink knowing the possibilty of you getting incredibly drunk is THERE but is it SCARY ?

Why is that any different than relationship I ask everyone ?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:06pm
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Yeah, that's been my problem mainly. I want someone stable, something that can last and that can grow into something. Of course, everyone I've had the slightest of interest in is too scared of being in a relationship, and I for one am not into this fucking without it meaning something thing that people seem to be all into these days.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:06pm
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YAY for double posts!
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:09pm
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Me neither Screwhead. But what, there are 0.05% of people like us out there ?

Oh and yay for double posts because the server was screwy ! LOL
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» bob_ replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:11pm
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i think so yeah...
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:16pm
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Yeah, everyone else just wants to fuck and not have any responsibilities. People talk about losing their freedom when in reality they're just scared that they will have new responsibilities to take on and won't be able to follow their every whim like a spoiled child getting everything they want.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MilkyLeely replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:17pm
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"Does everyone think a serious relationship is about getting married and having kids or what ?"

Most of the that I know they're my age 27-30. Girls at that age are more ready to get involved into families than 23 year old. L'horloge biologique.

Je dirais que tout depend des gens. Toi tu rencontre des filles comme ca tout comme les filles qui rencontre des mecs comme ca... C'est juste que ca arrive comme ca et c pas encore la bonne.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:18pm
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Well, you've described exactly how I feel. Doesn't feel great, doesn't it. Shit. Heh.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» bob_ replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:18pm
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amen to that!

if you wanna fuck and you don't want responsibilities, just become a whore or a gigolo ;)
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:28pm
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I'm in my 30s and I can't date women my age. Why ? Because although they are more inclined to be commited and serious about dating, I find them excessively boring ( well, I don't know you Leely ).

I still go out fairly often and I like to socialize a lot still. Most women my age are past that " phase " and feel like settling down to something quieter than going for drinks on a saturday night. Or worse, go out raving and do drugs.

My personality doesn't work well with this whole inactivity. My last relationship is a testament to that.

Of course, there is nothing I like better than to stay home and watch movies and such with my significant other but when it's 80% of the time, I freak out.

And so far, I haven't had any luck finding a women my age that would work well with the concept of " still raving, baby ! "
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» SebastianPrelar replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:31pm
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Originally posted by MILKYLEELY...

L'horloge biologique.

C'est juste que ca arrive comme ca et c pas encore la bonne.


Kesss que vous avez toute a croire qu'il y a "un élu" une personne "speciale" kekaprt qui vous attends? C'est quoi ce reve?? Encore des histoires illusionnaires que les gens s'inventent pour ne pas faire face a eux meme.

L'horloge bio... ou la pression sociale et familliale, qui dis qu'apres 30 ans, c'est pas "normal" d'etre encore tout seul. Putain de cliché de merdre, ca peut bien pas marché pour la plupart des gens, ils cherchent trop.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mico replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:32pm
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Originally posted by CHUCKLES...

I'd like to make an edit on my previous post. I retract my comment on the location of the guys heart. The girl as marc has so eloquently pointed out probably shouldn't have a heart. And the girls head should be lodged firmly up her ass.


HAHA!

Well said.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:36pm
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Hahahaha, Seb est aussi fru que moi. NOice. LOL.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» SebastianPrelar replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:38pm
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AHAHAH!! non non serieux jsuis pas fru, je trouve ca juste drole de voir que les gens en general, lors que c'est a propos de l'amour, ils se mettent a s'inventer à eux-meme des histoires et des illusion, comme des histoires de princesses. Trop d'attente, voila pourquoi ca chit en general pour les gens. Enfin... c'est ce que je crois et ce que j'obeserve, depuis quelques années. Interessant.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:40pm
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Moi je crois juste qu'il y a qqpart une fille qui va m'apprécier comment je suis, va aimer être avec moi et va me RESPECTER COMME JE SUIS comme je respecte ses qualités et ses défauts. C'est TOUT estie, je demande pas une top modèle avec des 36DD, bâtard. L'apparence c'est important mais c'est crissement secondaire si je suis pas capable d'endurer comment une super belle fille est câlissement épaisse ou me traîte comme un chien bâtard.

Quand ça clique avec quelqu'un, ça clique. C'est pas des histoires de contes de fées de " coup de foudre ", etc.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mico replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:40pm
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Mind you, there is a film being produced right now in Quebec called "L'Horloge Biologic" whihc is about three men who decide to "get a life."

From what I caught on TV, it goes into detail about how men "really feel" on the inside and their points of view on Love, Life and Relationships. All of this is mainly revolving around... well, Children, seeing that men usually are predisposed to be Macho-Bravo and what-not.

For all my time spent here on Ravewave, I never would have thought that I would read a thread where a bunch of guys willingly reach inside themselves and wrench out all their common paint and torment and splatter it down on their keyboards.

And for this, I applaude you all.

I would go on with my own personal experiences... But I rather keep them just that.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:42pm
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Yeah they spend their whole lives wanting to be "rescued" from the big bad abusive/shitty boyfirend that when they see the nice guy that will treat them the way they want to be treated, they don't go for him because they won't be the "damsel in distress" and won't get any more attention.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» bob_ replied on Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 3:43pm
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Originally posted by SEBASTIANPRELAR...

Originally posted by MilkyLeely...

L'horloge biologique.

C'est juste que ca arrive comme ca et c pas encore la bonne.


Kesss que vous avez toute a croire qu'il y a "un élu" une personne "speciale" kekaprt qui vous attends? C'est quoi ce reve?? Encore des histoires illusionnaires que les gens s'inventent pour ne pas faire face a eux meme.

L'horloge bio... ou la pression sociale et familliale, qui dis qu'apres 30 ans, c'est pas "normal" d'etre encore tout seul. Putain de cliché de merdre, ca peut bien pas marché pour la plupart des gens, ils cherchent trop.


j'suis d'accord avec Seb sur ce point.

Allo les filles, le prince charmant sur son cheval blanc c'est de la bullshit!!!
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