The Paparazzi
| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:43am |
 Coolness: 685540 | Originally Posted By NIJI
a walking vagina.  |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» AlienZeD replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:50am |
 Coolness: 509510 | hell... who needs it to walk?! |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AYkiN0XiA replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:51am |
 Coolness: 166525 | Originally Posted By NIJI
Does he really hit on every remotely attractive girl, though? Because yeah, if I was put in such a situation, I would indeed find it creepy, in the sense that it would make me feel like a walking vagina. NOT flattering in the slightest. some people look for romance, some people look for conversation, some people look for sex. whatever... who are we to say that one is better than the other....... :P but i can tell you also that he has good conversation, it's not like all he does is take pics. first time i met him we just spoke for like 30 minutes, and it was actually really interesting. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MelooDie replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:53am |
 Coolness: 248375 | Originally Posted By ALIENZED
hell... who needs it to walk?! I loled |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» perception replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:55am |
 Coolness: 65865 | maybe if he hit on women his age, it would be less creepy!!?!? |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AYkiN0XiA replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 12:58am |
| Coolness: 166525 | i don't believe in the age thing. i often end up liking men that are at least 10 years older than me... and i can go on a bigger age difference than that. it's not creepy, i just connect better in that way. the age thing, really, it's a teaching from our culture. thinking that some age gap is wrong, and some is right... really, who are we to judge?
any relationship can be a great experience, no matter how old or how young the people are. it's just different dynamics between people, and in the end if everyone is consenting, it's all good... only thing is i would not go on anyone who is younger than 18, just because of the law troubles it can potentially bring... |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» raisinlove replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 8:14am |
 Coolness: 62900 | Originally Posted By PERCEPTION
maybe if he hit on women his age, it would be less creepy!!?!? single womwn of that age are not as plentiful? |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Niji replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 8:26am |
 Coolness: 70165 | Originally Posted By RAISINLOVE
single womwn of that age are not as plentiful? Really? |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» raisinlove replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:00am |
| Coolness: 62900 | Originally Posted By NIJI
Really? surely you jest... I'm pretty sure there are way less single women over 30 than under. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:07am |
 Coolness: 88590 | Quite a few of us are crossing that 30 bridge soon :S
/freaks out My GF is 24, does that make me evil for dating someone that's not my age? I couldn't go for someone much younger though. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Rakoon replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:19am |
 Coolness: 175390 | Age's just a number :p |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:29am |
| Coolness: 88590 | My thought's exactly, but under aged is a whole other issue |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» DCRn replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:36am |
 Coolness: 158185 | Originally Posted By STRIK_IX
Quite a few of us are crossing that 30 bridge soon :S /freaks out My GF is 24, does that make me evil for dating someone that's not my age? I couldn't go for someone much younger though. It's not a straight line. Want it or not, people from ages 16 to 22-24 (some take longer) undergo several huge changes, all which will affect them and others around. Maturity hasn't always set in and growing up still occurs, in leaps and bounds. Being in a relationship where one goes through this process and one has gone through it ages ago most often results in problems, hardships and so on. To be blunt, the older person often ends up blaming the younger one for his or her inexperience/immaturity and this often causes relationship issues. I think this is the big problem with age differences. Morally, I also think that an adult should let a teenager fully mature before attempting to have a intimate relation. There is something creepy in attempting to "raise" a girlfriend or boyfriend; you'll usually find that the older partner in this case is either at the same maturity level (has never progressed past teenagehood) or a very controlling person. These are other reasons why such couplings are frowned upon. There are exceptions to this, of course, as there is in everything. I once met a couple where the girl was 18 and the guy was 35. They're still together today, 8 years later. As people age, the age difference becomes less and less important. A difference 24-30 isn't as potentially dangerous as a 16-22 difference, for instance. We reach a certain "wisdom plateau". For the tl;dr people, I think the main reason why these relationships are seen as creepy, is that underaged people are more vulnerable to adult influences and thus the older partner will often have the possibility of abusing this influence. The fact that exceptions exist doesn't change the fact that many underaged partners have been mentally abused in this fashion... |
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| Good [+3]Toggle ReplyLink» Daf replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:41am |
 Coolness: 185305 | there is no absolute answer
it's not black or white it's all about the person intention Update » Daf wrote on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:43am ReverendN : totally agree!
Melo: hahah wais, jpense qu'on revient sur le cas à toutes les années :P reste que c'est un sujet que je trouve important a discuté, parce que les opinions sont partagé! |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AYkiN0XiA replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:42am |
| Coolness: 166525 | or in the words of freud; complexe d'oedipe? Update » AYkiN0XiA wrote on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:50am Originally Posted By REVERENDN the older person often ends up blaming the younger one for his or her inexperience/immaturity and this often causes relationship issues. I think this is the big problem with age differences. or the younger person is not at the same level in life... at 30 some are ready to have kids and settle down (biological clock ticking), while their 20-something partner still wants to party. i've lived this and seen it happen often. but having sex with someone does not mean establishing a couple relationship. sometimes it can be just that - sex. and enjoy the older partner because they have some experience :) |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DCRn replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:45am |
| Coolness: 158185 | Freud was a fraud :D |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Niji replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:47am |
| Coolness: 70165 | Originally Posted By REVERENDN
It's not a straight line. Want it or not, people from ages 16 to 22-24 (some take longer) undergo several huge changes, all which will affect them and others around. Maturity hasn't always set in and growing up still occurs, in leaps and bounds. Being in a relationship where one goes through this process and one has gone through it ages ago most often results in problems, hardships and so on. To be blunt, the older person often ends up blaming the younger one for his or her inexperience/immaturity and this often causes relationship issues. I think this is the big problem with age differences. Morally, I also think that an adult should let a teenager fully mature before attempting to have a intimate relation. There is something creepy in attempting to "raise" a girlfriend or boyfriend; you'll usually find that the older partner in this case is either at the same maturity level (has never progressed past teenagehood) or a very controlling person. These are other reasons why such couplings are frowned upon. There are exceptions to this, of course, as there is in everything. I once met a couple where the girl was 18 and the guy was 35. They're still together today, 8 years later. As people age, the age difference becomes less and less important. A difference 24-30 isn't as potentially dangerous as a 16-22 difference, for instance. We reach a certain "wisdom plateau". For the tl;dr people, I think the main reason why these relationships are seen as creepy, is that underaged people are more vulnerable to adult influences and thus the older partner will often have the possibility of abusing this influence. The fact that exceptions exist doesn't change the fact that many underaged partners have been mentally abused in this fashion... + 10000000 And this is why I don't date under 24 anymore. haha (Though of course the learning process should be ongoing throughout one's life, but early adulthood is something else.) |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» CMYK replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:47am |
 Coolness: 42230 | His a soul collector |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DCRn replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:50am |
| Coolness: 158185 | Ouais, c'est sur.
Comme je dis, par contre, on reach un genre de niveau de connaissance/sagesse/maturité commune, où une personne devient totalement responsable de ses expériences et où la différence d'âge devient de moins en moins importante, largement dû au fait qu'on évolue tous à des vitesses différentes et qu'une personne de 30 ans peut être plus mature qu'une personne de 45 ans :D |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AYkiN0XiA replied on Wed Jan 5, 2011 @ 10:52am |
| Coolness: 166525 | to the debate though...
having sex with someone does not mean establishing a couple relationship. sometimes it can be just that - sex. and enjoy the older partner because they have some experience :) |
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