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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:20am |
 Coolness: 685670 | Yeah, the issue isn't so much that you want a member of the same sex, it's just that you want someone outside of the relationship you're in. If he's not into men, but you're into girls, it's hardly fair to impose that he not be allowed to have other girls on the side, only men. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AVA_AXL replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:23am |
 Coolness: 34745 | oh definitely,
i am not saying that should be an issue either. but about the watching thing: if that's the only way she's "allowed" to express herself sexually with another woman awfully controlling/manipulative and she'll most likely feel uncomfortable, cheat, and the relationship will end. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:25am |
| Coolness: 685670 | But if she wants to be with someone else, and he's not into that and wants a commited relationship, then it's not exactly going to last all that long anyways. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:27am |
 Coolness: 88720 | Labels are just that, labels. Open-mindedness has nothing to do with sexual orientation, it has to do with accepting difference. Not all of us are curious or still curious when it comes to our sexual preferences.
I pretty much meant what Screwhead just said. It is hardly fair to tell your BF hes allowed to see other men if he wants when he clearly isnt attracted to men, while you get to sleep with any chick you want and actually enjoy it, think about for one second... |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AVA_AXL replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:31am |
| Coolness: 34745 | if you want to sleep with other people and you are in a relationship with no flexibility or "rules" because your mate doesn't trust you then you probably shouldn't be in it in the first place.
what is the definition of a committed relationship exactly? i mean come on... we're not in the 50's anymore and i know we're way past that "free love" hippie bs but i think most would agree monogamy is on the outs... or why else would the divorce rate be so high... people wait so late in life to have kids and "settle"... adultery is alive and always kickin or many just choosing a life of "singlehood" in general nowadays (not to mention all the crazy kinky sex clubs, wife/husband swaps, swingers, orgies... and oh yeah: unplanned pregnancies and STDs... proof that (for better or for worse) that we just can't control ourselves sexually as a species. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:41am |
| Coolness: 88720 | Woah, I couldn't care less if monogamy is going out of style... I for one have been faithful to the women I've had the pleasure to share my life with. The last being a 5 year relationship in which I know for sure we both were completely faithful. It is quite healthy and good and to be quite honest, I wouldn't have it any other way.
Sure I was tempted on many occasions, heck I could've had one night stands, but to what end? Call me crazy, but I still believe in a relationship based on love and respect. And FYI, some of us actually still believe in the concept of family life, something which many of us were deprived of in childhood due to divorce/separation/abandonment and the list goes on. I for one still dream of meeting a woman with whom I could raise a family. Not necessarily the old fashioned way (2 kids, dog, mini-van, house in the suburbs, etc) but a united family nonetheless. I had my fun when I was younger, I couldn't live like that nowadays... not anymore. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:45am |
| Coolness: 685670 | Sure I was tempted on many occasions, heck I could've had one night stands, but to what end? Call me crazy, but I still believe in a relationship based on love and respect. And FYI, some of us actually still believe in the concept of family life, something which many of us were deprived of in childhood due to divorce/separation/abandonment and the list goes on.
I for one still dream of meeting a woman with whom I could raise a family. Not necessarily the old fashioned way (2 kids, dog, mini-van, house in the suburbs, etc) but a united family nonetheless. QFT Just because it doesn't work out for the majority doesn't mean that it wouldn't work out for a small minority. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AVA_AXL replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 1:53am |
| Coolness: 34745 | love and respect should be at the base of all relationships though whether you are sleeping with the person or not. i am not disputing that.
i just think if there is still "temptation/contemplation" there in a relationship that's "traditionally conservative" then somethings outta whack. whether it be a need to rethink why we don't trust, love and respect each other enough with other people physically while our heart and soul belongs to one man/woman alone (or can we be in love with more than one person at a time??? that's another dilemma) *AND/OR* someone will eventually slip up in these long term relationships and if they don't it's because no one found out. but sure... concepts are great - they just don't always fly and i think when it comes to these old fashioned expectations people really should start to examine why/why not we embrace them. and FYI: no i have never cheated... not on one person ever and i am already raising that family you speak of and it is dreamy and wonderful just not in the ways people expect if they don't have one of their own. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 2:04am |
| Coolness: 88720 | Without wanting to offend you, unless it's just cuz you haven't updated it correctly, your status says single. The family I speak of involves two parents and a child or children, united. And like I said, not necessarily a "conservative" family with the whole shabang, heck you could travel the world with packsacks for all I care, as long as you are united.
I am not here to judge, far from it. To each his own, that's my motto. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AVA_AXL replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 2:17am |
| Coolness: 34745 | That's cool and I can tell no worries... either am i... just a healthy debate style.
it's all good :) yes i am single. i've been in 2 back-to-back long-term relationships and even was married so definitely to each their own but my "own" has left me thinking a little differently is all. my son means the world to me and his father and it's important that if family members are not in a romantic relationship to still remain united for the child but that can happen in many different shapes and forms. haha yeah not very many party nights for me these days (which i don't mind because for the most part its out of my system on account i started when i was 14) not with that and university on my plate lol - but i love my life and wouldn't have changed a thing if i could :) i still have a tonne of respect for the scene and the MUSIC and try to make it out to an event once in a while ;) |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» sabinonstop replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 6:24pm |
 Coolness: 92510 | Ya its not always easy couples & children.
I got a daughter myself,have been down & out with my girlfrend but we try to make it work! and most importantly give lotsa love to our daughter! im sure your son is great!you seem like an open-minded parent! Ava Axl |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AVA_AXL replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 7:00pm |
| Coolness: 34745 | it's for sure all about the LOVE - unconditionally!
and thank you for the complement :) he means the absolute world to me! |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Eve-Hill replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 7:14pm |
 Coolness: 71840 | Maybe we don't trust partners because we don't fully trust ourselves and we are completely aware of our own desires for other people and feel that our partner might feel the same.
For myself, my partner is always my best friend at the same time. I think that's it is necessary for a functional and healthy relationship. I wouldn't want to be with someone that I couldn't be open and honest and myself with. I think monogamy works for some and not for others and that people should be able to be with someone where they don't have to live by the traditional rules and create their own. I was once in a open relationship and to me it felt the same to see my boyfriend make out with another guy as another girl. I am now in a totally monogamous relationship and I know that it would bother my boyfriend if i made out with a girl just as much as it would bother him if i made out with some guy. Then again a massive part of attraction for me is based on trust and emotion... I know I am very open minded and I know what works for me and so I try and stick by it and not make compromises that will lead to the doom of a relationship for me. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nathan replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 7:19pm |
 Coolness: 166625 | relationships are overrated
:P |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MURDOCK_ROCK replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 7:33pm |
 Coolness: 83955 | my advice isn't trying to play the male chauvinist card AVA
everybodys relationships are different. but lets not get succumbing to our sexual urges confused with selfishness.... the guy in this case clearly isn't completely closed minded to his girls openness to her sexuality. i was merely trying suggest that they find a fine medium that they can both be comfortable with. if the guy isn't comfortable with a cock in his mouth... thats probably not the best solution. and if anybody in the girl/ girl relationship is developing feeling beyond "lust" there could very well be some jealousy issues brewing. whether it be from the guy... or the other girl who is either aware (or not?) of the relationship that she is getting in the middle of. AVA you are clearly entitled to your "personal opinions" but you if you see these as anymore than opinions you are delusional. not say i that you're views aren't right for you. but they might not be right to everyone else. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Strik_IX replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 8:00pm |
| Coolness: 88720 | Originally Posted By MURDOCK_ROCK
not say i that you're views aren't right for you. Have you been taking English classes with Wood Murdock? |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» greatjob replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 8:28pm |
 Coolness: 282535 | hahahahah yeah that was we todd ed |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Adrianna replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 9:38pm |
 Coolness: 43010 | Originally Posted By HOST_ONE
Stop fuckin' cheating on your boyfriend that helps maybe I didn't make myself clear, I said it was a one time thing, I felt bad so I said things were over, that he deserved something better, but he wanted me back, since then I haven't done a damn thing with anyone else |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 9:44pm |
 Coolness: 159200 | Maybe I'm too old school but a " one time thing " does count as cheating, right ?
I'm hearing more and more of " yeah, I only did it once so it's ok " nowadays and I'm wondering if this has now become common. I certainly didn't get the memo. :) |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» greatjob replied on Fri Feb 22, 2008 @ 9:45pm |
| Coolness: 282535 | thats great and all, but I'm not your therapist |
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