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How Do You Walk Away From Someone Doing Themseves Harm?
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 12:04am |
 Coolness: 134325 | i dont like your job very much. |
| I'm feeling lil' reg loc' right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 12:08am |
 Coolness: 200585 | Good thing you don't shoot porn then... I guess... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mali a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 12:39am |
 Coolness: 202170 | Originally Posted By CHERRYONIONKISS
I know it's super cheesy but "you can't help someone who won't help themself" It's true. Don't take all your time on helping someone like that, cause then your life gets fucked up too. Trust me I know. All you can do is your best.. and know you did what you can. It is up to them. Coach them, give them a boost.. but they have to take the leap forward. If anything bad happens, it is no ones felt. You did all you could |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 1:29am |
 Coolness: 226330 | You guys rock really... |
| I'm feeling the witch hunt right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» rawali a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 2:10am |
 Coolness: 140740 | ...I like her job... in fact... i wish i had her job |
| I'm feeling a storm brewing right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» El_Presidente a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 2:22am |
 Coolness: 299380 | Had the same issue with a girl. I just had to drop it |
| I'm feeling lonely right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Bunnytronix a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 3:45am |
 Coolness: 152565 | Do it before it gets worst.
If she sees it coming, the reaction just goes bolder when you have time to ponder on it. |
| I'm feeling cracktastic right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 11:17am |
| Coolness: 226330 | Yeah, Taking care of business right now;)
And oh yeah, Porn? Can I get a Hookup? Gotta give that a try methinks... |
| I'm feeling the witch hunt right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Turtle a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 12:50pm |
 Coolness: 68360 | hey moloch
my 2 cents if u don't mind, i am 29 years old and to tell u the truth it depends on the "trouble" Involved here i mean if she is doing this to get your attention walk away but if she has a real problem then it is time to intervene. I have been there before and it really depends. That my 2 cents |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AlienZeD a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 1:14pm |
 Coolness: 509615 | Originally Posted By LYNZYN
hey moloch my 2 cents if u don't mind, i am 29 years old and to tell u the truth it depends on the "trouble" Involved here i mean if she is doing this to get your attention walk away but if she has a real problem then it is time to intervene. I have been there before and it really depends. That my 2 cents if she has a real problem, commit her to rehab. Let professionals do their job, it's not up to regular people to save anyone the way the movies and TV show us, you're going to waste your time and the second you're gone, she's gonna fuck up again. Some people NEED to learn from their mistakes and if they don't, not everyone born earns the right to live. |
| I'm feeling tired right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 2:44pm |
 Coolness: 171895 | Somethimes, it's when everybody let you down that you realize you went to far... Maybe this is the kick that would get her on the right path.
I don't know you or her, but I know that for me, it helped a lot when all my friend and my ex boyfriend told me they could'nt deal with what I was doing anymore. That's when I realise a lot about what I was doing. I know, it's gamble, but it seems (by the way you write) that you have tried everything else. |
| I'm feeling tralala right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 3:29pm |
| Coolness: 226330 | yah! I have, so I'm just gonna walk away, sadly enough, there's nothing more I can do. |
| I'm feeling the witch hunt right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 3:46pm |
| Coolness: 134325 | its not sad,your reborn. |
| I'm feeling lil' reg loc' right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 4:35pm |
| Coolness: 226330 | That's a really good way to look at it! |
| I'm feeling the witch hunt right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» FRANKB a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 4:47pm |
 Coolness: 103390 | maybe in you're next life you should look for friends in the right place |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Vanessa_Lutz a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 5:06pm |
 Coolness: 71660 | moloch you should read this book:"codependent no more".
* Codependent No More is the debut book of self-help author Melody Beattie. It introduced the word "codependent" to the world in the '70. The book would go on to sell over six million copies in the United States. The term "codependent" originated as a term to describe people who were involved in relationships with either drug addicted or alcohol addicted and other compulsive disorder spouses or lovers. In the book, Melody Beattie explains that a codependent is a person who believes their happiness is derived from one person in particular, and eventually the codependent becomes obsessed with controlling the behavior of that one person. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Holly_Golightly a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 5:14pm |
 Coolness: 158790 | also, we should always be carefull of wich kind of friend or lover we choose.
check this list: have you already dated someoene who had : * 1. SUPERFICIAL CHARM -- the tendency to be smooth, engaging, charming, and slick. Not in the least shy, self-conscious, or afraid to say anything. He never gets tongue-tied and has freed himself from the social conventions about taking turns in talking, for example. 2. GRANDIOSE SELF-WORTH -- a grossly inflated view of one's abilities and self-worth, self-assured, opinionated, cocky, a braggart. An arrogant guy who believes he is a superior human being. 3. NEED FOR STIMULATION (PRONENESS TO BOREDOM) -- an excessive need for novel, thrilling, and exciting stimulation; taking chances and doing things that are risky. Often has low self-discipline in carrying tasks through to completion because he gets bored easily. 4. PATHOLOGICAL LYING -- can be moderate or high; in moderate form, and will be shrewd, crafty, cunning, sly, and clever (in extreme form, he will be deceptive, deceitful, underhanded, unscrupulous, manipulative, and dishonest). 5. CONNING AND MANIPULATIVENESS -- the use of deceit and deception to cheat, con, or defraud others for personal gain; distinguished from Item #4 in the degree to which exploitation and callous ruthlessness is present, as reflected in a lack of concern for the feelings and suffering of one's victims. 6. LACK OF REMORSE OR GUILT -- a lack of feelings or concern for the losses, pain, and suffering of victims; a tendency to be unconcerned, dispassionate, coldhearted, and unempathic. This item is usually demonstrated by a disdain for one's victims. 7. SHALLOW AFFECT -- emotional poverty or a limited range or depth of feelings; interpersonal coldness in spite of signs of open gregariousness. 8. CALLOUSNESS and LACK OF EMPATHY -- a lack of feelings toward people in general; cold, contemptuous, inconsiderate, and tactless. 9. PARASITIC LIFESTYLE -- an intentional, manipulative, selfish, and exploitative financial dependence on others as reflected in a lack of motivation, low self-discipline, and inability to begin or complete responsibilities. 10. POOR BEHAVIORAL CONTROLS -- expressions of irritability, annoyance, impatience, threats, aggression, and verbal abuse; inadequate control of anger and temper; acting hastily. 11. PROMISCUOUS SEXUAL BEHAVIOR -- a variety of brief, superficial relations, numerous affairs, and an indiscriminate selection of sexual partners; the maintenance of several relationships at the same time; a history of attempts to sexually coerce others into sexual activity or taking great pride at discussing sexual exploits or conquests. 12. LACK OF REALISTIC, LONG-TERM GOALS -- an inability or persistent failure to develop and execute long-term plans and goals; a nomadic existence, aimless, lacking direction in life. 13. IMPULSIVITY -- the occurrence of behaviors that are unpremeditated and lack reflection or planning; inability to resist temptation, frustrations, and urges; a lack of deliberation without considering the consequences; foolhardy, rash, unpredictable, erratic, and reckless. 14. IRRESPONSIBILITY -- repeated failure to fulfill or honor obligations and commitments; such as not paying bills, defaulting on loans, performing sloppy work, being absent or late to work, failing to honor contractual agreements. 15. FAILURE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OWN ACTIONS -- a failure to accept responsibility for one's actions reflected in low conscientiousness, an absence of dutifulness, antagonistic manipulation, denial of responsibility, and an effort to manipulate others through this denial. 16. MANY SHORT-TERM RELATIONSHIPS -- a lack of commitment to a long-term relationship reflected in inconsistent, undependable, and unreliable commitments in life, including marital. 17. JUVENILE DELINQUENCY -- behavior problems between the ages of 13-18; mostly behaviors that are crimes or clearly involve aspects of antagonism, exploitation, aggression, manipulation, or a callous, ruthless tough-mindedness. 18. CRIMINAL VERSATILITY -- A diversity of types of criminal offenses (regardless if the person has been arrested or convicted for them); taking great pride at getting away with crimes. * f you answered yes, then you may be as surprised as I was to learn that all 18 traits are actually “clinical traits” of a sociopath (Source: Psychopathy Checklist-Revised, PCL-R; Hare,1991, 2003)... and IF you’ve dated guys with these traits, chances are YOU are attracted to or involved with a SOCIOPATH... yikes! |
| I'm feeling hitched right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Mali a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 10:28pm |
| Coolness: 202170 | My Mom tols me I was a sociopath once..
then i killed a cow |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DrGonzo a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 10:37pm |
 Coolness: 266010 | you push them down a flight of stairs..
or you introduce them to ravewave.. they wont be harming themselves anymore, plenty of ravers to go around. |
| I'm feeling genre ton pubis, sty right now.. | |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» WinterBlossom a répondu le Tue 6 Feb, 2007 @ 10:45pm |
 Coolness: 43580 | Wow...and what do you call one who has more than a dozen of these traits?
Sociozilla? =P |
| I'm feeling mucho happy right now.. | |
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