Cheating.
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 1:34am |
 Coolness: 276630 | Which is what??.... Faith is one way of.. i unno.. escaping reality... Some of us have drugs, even if we believe in something, it can still let us down. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 1:55am |
 Coolness: 685785 | Only thing I have any faith in anymore that's ever let me down is my own music. And the only thing that lets me down in music is the Metallica song, Nothing Else Matters. Every single fucking time I've heard that song for the past 8-9 years, something incredibly bad has happened to me. My hospitalisation, a few other things that I won't mention, the day my fiancee decided we should end the relationship, every time I've gotten a call from the hospital for checkups, the day my ex's father died in the bathroom while we were watching TV and though it was the dog in the next room. That song has brought me nothing but pain and misery. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nuclear a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 2:58am |
 Coolness: 2604180 | people should be allowed to have fun. how is it that if you sleep with someone who you are not going out with hard the person you are going out with in any way. i mean as long as the two of you know it's all for fun and the third person knows it's all for fun then where is the problem. i mean you gotta keep things exciting and the only way to do that is by exploring, and how are you ever going to learn new things if you don't explore with other people. i know from every person i slept with i discovered things which were different. some people do some things better and others do other things better. the only way to get a blend of everything and live your life is by being with different people and if someone sais that is not true then they themselves are not living their life to it's fullest... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ontheroadagain a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 3:05am |
 Coolness: 54530 | if you want to experience life and share intimate moments with people, you shouldn't be in an exclusive relationship....
if you are and you cheat, well i guess it depends on a few things...did you try to cheat, make a conscious decision do go ahead with the act...or were you swept away with the moment? Are you honest with your partner? If you feel you can't tell them everything....well, you may have problems outside of cheating.... no one has ever cheated on me (as far as i know) and i've never cheated on someone else.....even so.....monogamy/exclusive relationship is not really for me right now....i like freedom |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 3:13am |
| Coolness: 685785 | As much as I'd love to be out experiencing life like that, my whole life has been an extremely unstable mess, and I need some sort of stability and someone who can be strong for me just for a little bit, because I can't stay strong and keep my chin up forever. I'm starting to break right now in a very, very bad way, and as much as friends may try and help me feel better and get through it, I *need* a stable relationship to help ground me and give me some purpose. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 3:24am |
| Coolness: 276630 | I don't think very many of you understand whatim saying.
I'm asking what your opinion would be if you cheated. Im not asking for your views on relationships. BLOP! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nuclear a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 3:37am |
| Coolness: 2604180 | I'd have to live with it and if I really love the person I am with then it should not make a difference, after all it's only sex and if the person rather be with you than someone else then it's all good.
The you can ask yourself why would someone wanna have sex with someone they don't love... It once again comes down to fun and it's something different. If you think you could learn then why not, but if your not going to learn anything then that sucks. I guess going back to the old is bad, but something new could be good. I mean we already expencianced the old so new is better... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 3:58am |
| Coolness: 276630 | I mean we already expencianced the old so new is better..
Then you should just move on and not go back to the old. I just wanted to know you'z peoples opinions on cheating. Do you do it cause your bored? -but still love the person To see if you will get caught and ur partners reaction? - to see how far you can go, or because your not happy anymore but dont know how to hurt them. ect.. I think theres different reasons people cheat. Im just curious. I've wanted to get ur peoples opinion for a while, i just thought some people might feel targeted. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 4:02am |
| Coolness: 685785 | Well, technically I cheated on someone, and even though it's technically cheating and I don't view it as cheating, I still hate myeslf for doing it, because I always thought that I was a nice guy, that I was diffrent and that I wasn't a typical male pig like every other guy. Turns out I am. While a few people that I've told all the details to have all told me the same thing; that yeah technically it's cheating but under the curcumstances, not really, I still feel like I did one of the worst things of my life. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 4:23am |
| Coolness: 276630 | Im curious (if you don't mind) to know what the circumstances were.
if you don't wanna say thats fine. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 4:37am |
| Coolness: 685785 | Answer's in your ravewave messages! |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» daFTWin a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 5:27am |
| Coolness: 276630 | He was unhappy.
That was my opinion. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» screw_you a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 9:19am |
 Coolness: 77235 | *looks at topic*
NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!! i never have and never will... if u wanna be with more than one person just dont be in a relationship ..its very simple actually ... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cloud9ine a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 9:20am |
 Coolness: 138915 | ive been cheated on twice and man, its just the most unpleasant experience ever.
i'm with you, iza. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:23am |
 Coolness: 141560 | i'm much more into exlusivity now then i used to be, i've never been the most relationship wise person, but they are certainly possitive reinforcements, it's been too long.
However, if you never commit to a relationship and you remain a single commodity and do not claim to be with any one person, then, by all means, grill the lot of them, crack the crevase and make your decent, pop the tart and go for the cherry center if you're in a relationship you gots A girl, and you can grill that and only that, pretty much...but hells who gives a fuck, your with DAT cause her KATHUNKATHUNKTHUNK makes you go BUDUMBADUMDUMP and that's what should always matter, and if it isn't, like Qwest tha Madd Ladd puts it "Then I'll fuck your girl" wait, that was a complete anti-thesis |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:24am |
| Coolness: 133805 | "everything we do is intrinsically selfish."
- i ACTUALLY agree with something ian said. WOW i am shocked. Cheating just means that you dont love the person you are with as much as you say or as much as you think. Yes sex is fun and people always want to have fun but if you want the good things that go along with a serious relationship that you have to make some sacrafices and keep it in your pants. If you love someone, cheating isn't even an option and not cheating should be very easy. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» El_Presidente a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:34am |
 Coolness: 299520 | I see that most people disagree with my philosophy. I somehow disagree myself, that is why I avoid serious relationships like the plague |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PaT_ a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:38am |
| Coolness: 116490 | cheating on someone has nothing to do with a the decreasing levels and degrees of love in a relationship.
when someone cheats on somebody else alot of the time its because they cant get what they want from that person so they find it from someone else. but fine thats debatable... because if you truely love somebody then you wouldnt do something like that.... you would sit down and talk to the other about what it is your lacking in the relationship....now lets say your also lacking social skills and ability in your relationship which doesnt allow you to sit down and tlak about all the things you lack... people cheat on other people because they love the person they are cheating on or need them in there lives.... why else would you fuckin cheat? if you dont love them anymore then why fuckin be toghter with them? take cheating, the act of... and look at it as if you were the one cheating on someone...not as you were the one who just got cheated on... |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nuclear a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:44am |
| Coolness: 2604180 | Just cause you sleep with someone does not mean you don't love the person you are with. I don't know how you people could possibly think that. I mean look at people who are married. I think their marriage would be a lot better if once a month they were able to go out and do the party and not have to worry about anything then if they would have to live all their lives ONLY with each other and no one else.
This once a month party action would just be for fun and it would remind them that there are other things out in the world but to not take them so seriously. I guess it's something you begin to believe when you get older. At dawson I took a sex and objectivity class and I can tell you that 90% of the people agreed that sleeping with another person while married should be allowed as long as the both of you know about it and you realize that it's only natural to wanna go out and explore. After all without it things tent to get boring. Also what a lot of people do when they are older is swap cupples. Swimger bars become something which is cool since now you can enjoy being with your loved one and still have the option to be with someone else all at the same time. You can set the rules and it's all good and there are no worries cause yes you would be having fun. |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PaT_ a répondu le Tue 21 Jan, 2003 @ 10:47am |
| Coolness: 116490 | ya but noah the problem with that is once a married person experience "the party" and fun again...they might want to break off the married
its like giving a fat kid whos on a strict died a donut once a month... or a drug user drugs 'once and a while' to me the reason to get married is cause your commiting yourself to 1 person...and thats a responsibility marrige comes with... and marridge shouldnt get boring.. if it does its probably cause of a lack of interest from one of the parties.... and married shouldnt be based solely on sexual desire |
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