Your Stance On Honesty
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DynV replied on Wed Aug 24, 2011 @ 11:08pm |
 Coolness: 108785 | What's your stance on honesty and moreover on relationship? Do you prefer white lies than the brutal truth? Do you prefer the idealized version of a relationship over it's reality? |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» FRANKB replied on Wed Aug 24, 2011 @ 11:28pm |
 Coolness: 103315 | SOMEONE HAVING RELATIONSHIP ISSUES????
i think any crazy bitch would prefer the idealized version of a relationship over the reality.. if she's nice, tell her the truth. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Kire replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 2:21am |
 Coolness: 66680 | depends on the gf tbh |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DynV replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 3:01am |
| Coolness: 108785 | one can also have a relationship with a friend, a non-sexual non-social network one, and family. |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» AlienZeD replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 4:31am |
 Coolness: 509540 | You need both, at appropriate moments. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» basdini replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 7:51am |
 Coolness: 145180 | lie to her, tell her it won't hurt if you put it in the bum... |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» raisinlove replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 8:56am |
 Coolness: 62930 | again, this is case-by-case |
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| Good [+3]Toggle ReplyLink» BonusBeats replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:10am |
 Coolness: 30820 | Tact, people. Truth, properly formulated, is the key in (almost) any given situation. Sometimes you might have to attenuate or amplify it a little to adjust to the target, but I think the closest you stick to the truth (or your perception of it actually) the better you'll do. Less problems covering up white lies and patching up for unrealistic statements later on. It also builds confidence in the relationship, and even boosts self-confidence. It also has the advantage of forcing you to face the real situation as often as possible, which in turn, gives realistic results. Based on solid ground called the truth (your perception of the truth, don't get me wrong, no one owns the truth). It also gives discussions a real constructive aspect, since you are not lying, you are talking about true feelings and-or stuff, so the constructivity factor should not be overlooked.
Sometimes you might just not be in a working relationship, and lying only makes it last longer, and the longer it lasts the least available you are to happiness. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Max_x2 replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 11:25am |
 Coolness: 33880 | Originally Posted By BONUSBEATS
Tact, people. Truth, properly formulated, is the key in (almost) any given situation. Sometimes you might have to attenuate or amplify it a little to adjust to the target, but I think the closest you stick to the truth (or your perception of it actually) the better you'll do. Less problems covering up white lies and patching up for unrealistic statements later on. It also builds confidence in the relationship, and even boosts self-confidence. It also has the advantage of forcing you to face the real situation as often as possible, which in turn, gives realistic results. Based on solid ground called the truth (your perception of the truth, don't get me wrong, no one owns the truth). It also gives discussions a real constructive aspect, since you are not lying, you are talking about true feelings and-or stuff, so the constructivity factor should not be overlooked. Sometimes you might just not be in a working relationship, and lying only makes it last longer, and the longer it lasts the least available you are to happiness. there u go. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Termina replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 12:01pm |
 Coolness: 86070 | Honesty comes before everything and anything in relationships, if you ask me. |
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| Good [+2]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 12:17pm |
 Coolness: 685570 | If it's someone I actually care about or that I think really cares about me/is a true friend, zero tolerance for lying. I personally don't 'do' lying to people I know.
About the only exception I can think of to the 'no lying' rule is something like if there's a surprise birthday party, or to hide their birthday present.. something that's supposed to be a good/fun surprise kind of thing. |
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| Good [+3]Toggle ReplyLink» pencapchew replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 12:43pm |
 Coolness: 35570 | saying you never lie is a lie |
| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» v.2-1 replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 12:44pm |
 Coolness: 159100 | I prefer not to lie because you end up with scarred legs and a lot of lost trousers. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» JojoBizarre replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 2:00pm |
 Coolness: 294955 | I am lazy, and telling the truth demands less energy, so I am honest. |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Max_x2 replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 2:53pm |
| Coolness: 33880 | Originally Posted By JOJOBIZARRE
I am lazy, and telling the truth demands less energy, so I am honest. hahahahaha! Nice one ;) |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» databoy replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 4:14pm |
 Coolness: 106095 | Originally Posted By JOJOBIZARRE
I am lazy, and telling the truth demands less energy, so I am honest. this |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Nathan replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 4:33pm |
 Coolness: 166525 | Originally Posted By BONUSBEATS
Tact, people. Truth, properly formulated, is the key in (almost) any given situation. My thoughts exactly. Well put ;) I really hate pathological liars, rumor mongers, and exaggerators. If someone lies to you, then it's a pretty shitty relationship. If you need to lie to someone, then maybe you also need to re-think your relationship with the person ... If a lie can avoid death, or extreme pain, then it's a question of survival and a social issue such as 'honesty' no longer applies, but that's not a relationship oriented situation ... We get lied to all the time by the media and the government, with whom we're supposed to have a professional relationship, and you see how that turns out xD The truth is out there! |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DCRn replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 4:52pm |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» DynV replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 6:23pm |
| Coolness: 108785 | I see people tend to have an outlook similar to min that they have little tolerance for lies within their inner circle.
I'm interested to know those who are ambiguous on the matter thus think it's a matter or circumstance, how you deal with that and how you can draw a limit and can tell about it ; ie: don't ever lie about... |
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| Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» rawali replied on Thu Aug 25, 2011 @ 9:29pm |
 Coolness: 140665 | the fuck is up with all these relationshit threads as of late... what is this the fucking doctor phil forum for fucks sake! |
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