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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» PoiSoNeD_CaNdY replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 6:26am
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Is being self-centered (being primarily concerned with oneself, and viewing the world in relationship to oneself) good or bad?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 6:39am
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Most people will consider it to be bad, but it's only because they're too self-centered themselves and can't believe that anyone wouldn't think about them first.

I for one am very self centered. Every single thing I say or do is with the intention of pleasing myself first and foremost. Everyone else can go fuck themselves to hell and back if they don't like it.

Fuck people's oppinion anyways. Live for yourself.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Agent_Yogurt replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 10:27am
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in a relationship it's all about equality. equal expectations. having no expectations means you are settling for whatever this person happens to be and that's not the best thing to do. I personally am pretty selfish. It can be good and bad. I have been more so lately cause I used to think about others all the time and no one ever cared back so now i care about myself. but if can also ruin relationships, i know from experience
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 10:40am
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"What exactly are we doing to our romantic relationships?" I asked.
"I talked with the priest a long time about this," she replied. "He said that when both partners in a relationship are overly demanding, when each expects the other to live in his or her world, to always be there to join in his or her chosen activities, an ego battle inevitably develops."

-The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:25pm
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i'd say it's a two way street, cause i can't deny my own selfishness, but when you're own selfishness begins affecting other peoples lives because they are too generous to stop you, then, you're backing up...

personally i can't stand selfish people, even if i have my own times of self selfishness, people who ignore other people for themselves, all the time, I want, to, fucking...DELAPTATE them
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Zz.ee.vV replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:29pm
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personally, i wanna delapitate all those hot girls sittin on their bf's laps and lapitate them to myself :b
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» G__ replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:32pm
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MY MAAAAN!!!!

that was a symphony to my ears

i heard that

I HEEEEAAAAAAARRRRRRDDDD THAT!!!!!
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» clown replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:33pm
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humm, cool topic..

i think everyone is kind of self-centerd in a way.. Its all about how your project your self-centerdness that makes it right or wrong.

If your always an ass to people, showing no respect cause you just don't care, then i see it as wrong. But, if you are just concerned about yourself before others, that's cool, cause once you satisfy yourself, you can then make others happy. You then find out that making others happy makes yourself happy.. Thats' when your on the right track to self-centerdness.. (i think)
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ontheroadagain replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:36pm
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i try to strike a nice balance between being self-centered and putting others first. I hate it when people ONLY think of themselves...i see people who only help others when there's something in it for them. Fuck that.

Sidewalks are a good place to see who is selfish or not...if a dude doesn't move over for a little old lady with her arms full of groceries, just because he's bigger and CAN force her to move it shows that he only cares about himself.

We all have certain beliefs that we don't (and shouldn't) give up on, the important things. But the whole idea of "i sat here first, so fuck you pregnant chick,go find your own chair" pisses me off.

Stand up for yourself when dealing with the really important stuff but bend a bit too....a relationship is all about bending while being real/true to yourself. I only learned about the "being real/true to self" after the fact though...hehehe that's how we learn,eh...by fucking up

Amanda...good book :)
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:46pm
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I actually got on a fight on a bus once because of something like that. It really sucks. I have rheumatoid arthritis. That's rheumatism and arthritis, for those who don't like figguring things out. It's the reason I can't dance when not on an upper of sorts and mainly just sit around at parties if I don't have any. It's also a real BITCH in the winter and spring thanks to all the rain/humid weather/cold and quite often, it's actually painfull and a chore to stand or walk. So this ass that's sitting next to me and that's like, 30 or something, gets all pissed off that I don't want to stand and give an old woman my seat and then he punched me. If he wanted her to sit so much, he could have gotten up himself that dumb fucker. Either way, I got off the bus and he went home with a face that looked like a horror prop, so it was all good. :)
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Miss_Amanda replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 12:55pm
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Dunno: not good book, GREAT book (but the continuation is crap)
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» ontheroadagain replied on Mon Mar 24, 2003 @ 1:01pm
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dude shoulda stood up, it's funny how the one's who bitch don't practice what they preach. There's been times where i didn't give my seat up, i balance my state of being vs their's...shit there's been times where i offer my seat and a fiesty old chick laughs at me,cause she's wicked healthy/strong despite her age.

If i'm on my way to the hospital because i have a fever above 103 and some 60 yr old thinks she's getting my seat only because she's 60 and a woman...hahaha fuck that....my state of being is worse than hers, i keep the seat.
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