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How Do You Walk Away From Someone Doing Themseves Harm?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:09pm
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Damn I feel like an idiot, I finally walk away only to see I have ethic issues knowing the fact she'll go back to something really bad when I leave. I don't wanna be held responsible for "leaving her alone to pulls tricks so she can survive!" fuck fuck fuck!!!

I don't wanna seem dramatic, not my type. But I just HAD TO YELL IT OUT LOUD!

Thanxs peeps...
Mark
I'm feeling the witch hunt right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:18pm
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Unless the person you're walking away from is your under-18 child, everyone is responsible for their own lives, and no one else's.
I'm feeling up the edit button right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:24pm
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Screwhead, yeah I know... But sometimes, It just ain't black or white man. I spent a lot of time with that chick. Maybe the love part is seriously damaged beyond repair, but I can't seriously say that I don't care.

It would just mean that I'm as bad as she is y'see...
I'm feeling the witch hunt right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:28pm
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well, then, the only thing you can really do then is live with it. It's one of those fucked-ifyou-do, fucked-if-you-don't situations.

If a person doesn't want to help themselves and try to do it on their own, you can do all you want, she isn't going to change. You can spend your whole life being her security blanket, but what about you? Would she even care enough to do the same for you if the situation were reversed?
I'm feeling up the edit button right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:30pm
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yYeah you are so right. I guess I gotta dig a little deeper imn the fucking trentch. It ain't nuthing but mental torture, And I think she is well aware of the manipul;ation involved.
I'm feeling the witch hunt right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Screwhead replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:31pm
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If someone cares for you, then there wouldn't be any manipulation involved..
I'm feeling up the edit button right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MolocH replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:41pm
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Yeah, I know that. Fuck I hate this, can't let her take me down with her though.
I'm feeling the witch hunt right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Niji replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:46pm
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Originally Posted By SCREWHEAD WELL, THEN, THE ONLY THING YOU CAN REALLY DO THEN IS LIVE WITH IT. IT'S ONE OF THOSE FUCKED-IFYOU-DO, FUCKED-IF-YOU-DON'T SITUATIONS. IF A PERSON DOESN'T WANT TO HELP THEMSELVES AND TRY TO DO IT ON THEIR OWN, YOU CAN DO ALL YOU WANT, SHE ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE.QUOTE]

QFT

I don't know what's going on exactly in your case, but really, how can someone solve their issues if they never have to face them on their own ?
I'm feeling mioum mioum right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 12:58pm
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one foot infront of the other..just walk away.

dont look back,life is too short .
I'm feeling lil' reg loc' right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MURDOCK_ROCK replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 1:04pm
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yeah for real...

your better off walking away from ppl who are trouble in your life...

if they don't care... why should you.

its just gunna bring you down.
I'm feeling warm unicorn jizz right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» greatjob replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 1:29pm
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Originally Posted By REGIMENTAL911

one foot infront of the other..just walk away.

dont look back,life is too short .


exactly, if things arent working out, look after yourself first dude.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AlienZeD replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 10:36pm
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Originally Posted By MOLOCH

Damn I feel like an idiot, I finally walk away only to see I have ethic issues knowing the fact she'll go back to something really bad when I leave. I don't wanna be held responsible for "leaving her alone to pulls tricks so she can survive!" fuck fuck fuck!!!

I don't wanna seem dramatic, not my type. But I just HAD TO YELL IT OUT LOUD!

Thanxs peeps...
Mark


I went through that. FUCK IT man, look out for yourself and expect nothing from anyone.
Think about it hard and realize that you're being selfish because you don't care about what she thinks she wants, you care about what you want for her. One way or the other she's gonna do what she wants to do, any complaining on her part is BULLSHIT MIND GAMES. Free yourself before you learn the hard way, i hope this depressing rant gave you something to think about.
Let her go, if she's worth it, she will not go. If you're worth it, it'll work itself out.
I'm feeling rave in toronto right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:14pm
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Yeah, but when you walk away from that person and then they actually lose their life, how do you deal with the guilt?
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» regimental911 replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:20pm
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SHOOT SOME PORN?
I'm feeling lil' reg loc' right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» djpsychokitty replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:21pm
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there is no guilt to have, they made their decision, if they werent unhappy and decided to end their lives because this is what they wanted, its their decision and you have to accept it.
I'm feeling back online fuck yea right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Niji replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:27pm
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^^^^^^

I like that girl.
I'm feeling mioum mioum right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:33pm
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Dude, why are you so obsessed with the fact that I shoot porn? Seriously it's like you keep bringing it up to try to piss me off but I really love my job.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:36pm
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People have their own free will to do whatever they want to do. You can't save everyone.

A few years ago I was trying to explain to some people how they were fucking up their lives, and what did I get? Threats of violence and friends turning their back on me. In the end I was 100% right, but it wasn't worth the stress of even speaking out. I can no longer deal with people who are fucking up their lives, I can't help them. I don't feel guilty. I have to just live my own life.

Make the effort but don't waste your whole life trying to help other people...
I'm feeling gangsta right now..
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» blop replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:38pm
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I know it's super cheesy but "you can't help someone who won't help themself"
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Mon Feb 5, 2007 @ 11:40pm
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pretty much.
I'm feeling gangsta right now..
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