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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» evilkitkatbar replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 9:09am
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No Im not getting married :P I was just wondering what your opinion on the subject was?
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Trey replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 9:14am
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institutionalized spurious love
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 9:21am
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I'm not in any religion (not even baptise), so I wouldn't do the hole church and everything thing.
But I don't know why you can't celebrate one of the best thing that happens in your life (finding love)with the people you love.
Ok, I know, it sounds cheezy...but after all, it's just your name on a piece of paper and a big party. Why not?
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MURDOCK_ROCK replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 9:35am
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I don't believe in marriage personally...

but i'm not opposed to it either...

but if i was to ever get married, it would most likely be just to shut up my sugnificant other...
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Holly_Golightly replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 10:49am
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Originally Posted By SHINDY

Ok, I know, it sounds cheezy...but after all, it's just your name on a piece of paper and a big party. Why not?


well i think it's depend how you see the whole concept of marriage but getting married imply a lots more things than that my dear. :P
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Shindy replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:02am
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Well, normal couples (married or not) needs faithfulnes comprehension, respect, love, etc. I don't see the difference between a before and after the wedding.
I mean, if I got married with my boyfriend today, I don't think the relation we have would change radically.
The same basic value would guide our relationship with each other. The big difference would be that it would be official.
And all the legal stuff would be more complex.
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MURDOCK_ROCK replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:08am
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legaly if you live with someone for a year.... you are considered common law.
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Phoenix replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:13am
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Marriage was originally designed to prove two people's indelible commitment to one another and solidify a successful family structure for children's upbringing but sadly it's meaning has almost been completely lost as most people today accept it as nothing more than a social status identifier or means to help them budget financially.
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AYkiN0XiA replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:57am
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it's a good idea if you plan on having a child. that is... not necessarly the institutionnal marriage... but just the promise, 'for the better and for worse' it's good for kids to have a united family.
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» MURDOCK_ROCK replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 12:11pm
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yeah... but how realistic is it?
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» kwickStah replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 12:23pm
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Pour moi le marriage c`est une facon de prommettre devant le monde que t`aime que vous allez vous aimez jusqu`a la mort pour le meilleur et pour le pire, vous soutenir dans les moments difficile et vous rester fidel pour toujours. Va-t-on tenir notre prommesse? Personnellement si je suis pas convaincu que je suis capable de la tenir je ne me marrirai pas. Mais si c`est le cas si vraiment chuis prete a rester pour le meilleur et pour le pire C`est quelque chose que j`adorais vivre un jour..
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Niji replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 1:10pm
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Hm, the people I know who have gotten married are those I least expected to.

Personally, I think it's like saying "I love you"; you don't *need* to do it to demonstrate its meaning, but it feels good to hear.

Too many people get married too fast. Or make babies too fast. Just because some people fail at being parents doesn't mean we shouldn't make babies; same goes for marriage.
I think that few couples really belong together; too many people stay together because of dependancy issues or whatnot... Those people definitely shouldn't get married. But when you truly are with someone you belong with, getting married is a way of saying "I don't just think I love you; after all we've been through, I know I do".

So, while I believe in marriage, I don't put much faith in people's ability to decide if it's the right thing for them...
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Deadfunk replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 2:12pm
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if im gonna be married one day its gonna be me and my partner on a beach in some pacific island making love all night and giving to her a ring...
no papers signed, no church thing ..

do you need papers to prove someone you love him/her?
no and love can go away as fast as it can come, so signing papers will just make useless shit if anything goes wrong ..
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» AlienZeD replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 2:21pm
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You all raise a lot of interesting issues and I agree with most of them. For me, mariage is a commitment... it's saying, I want to be with you and work through problems we might have because I know I love you enough to work on us. All relationships need that at some point... you can't just give up, and mariage makes it harder to give up...
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» cvxn replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 2:58pm
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***I mean, if I got married with my boyfriend today, I don't think the relation we have would change radically. The same basic value would guide our relationship with each other. The big difference would be that it would be official. ***

same here. Also, my cousin and her boyfriend aren't married, but they've been together for what, like 5-6 years? And they have 3 kids.
But getting married is fun, you have a buffet. ^__^
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Wizdumb replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 5:29pm
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i'm not for marriage nor against it. what is it a piece of paper to make things all nice and legal? the only reason i see for marriage is for taxes
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» nothingnopenope replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 5:44pm
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I'm not a big fan, but I think for raising children it's best to have both parents together.
Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Wizdumb replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 8:14pm
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they can be together and not legally married...
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» kwickStah replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:29pm
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Le marriage c`est aussi une super bonne occasion de reunir nos 2 familles et leur montrer a quel point on s`aime c`est comme celebrer la force de 2 personnes qui s`aime. Je le veux moi mon boutte de papier qui dit qu`on s`aime pour toujours. Sa concretise les choses. Bien sure faut que les 2 personnes veulent se marrier pour la meme raison. Je pense pas que sa changerais grand chose si je me marriais aujourd`hui parce que je sais dejas a quel point on s`aime, mais j`aimerais vraiment sa par exemple que les gens qui nous entoure comprennent a quel point notre amour est fort. j`pense que ya pas de preuve plus concrete que le marriage.
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Good [+1]Toggle ReplyLink» Eve-Hill replied on Wed Dec 6, 2006 @ 11:31pm
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Due to past experience of long term relationships going very very bad I think the idea totaly terrifies me. In May, not long after I broke up with my ex he asked me to marry him. Or he stated many times that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and that he'd ask me to marry him if there was even a remote chance that I'd say yes. I never considered the idea before BUT after a month earlier having him threaten to kill himself on his birthday.... the idea of throwing myself against a wall for several hours sounded way more appealing. Welcome to the life of Mel.
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